Jun 2020
3:05pm, 11 Jun 2020
35,158 posts
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HappyG(rrr)
We're same with my Mum Dave. She could have been and could still be coming to ours to stay. But then if she got it from me or my wife I'd feel awful. Well, it would be awful. How I feel isn't worst of it! My missus and I have to go to shops, possibly car repairs, other trips etc. and eventually work. In her own house she can fully isolate. Here, we'd have a risk of passing something on to her. No matter how small, I think it's less risk for her to be at home and manage herself. We'll support her in her own home. I'm lucky it's only 20 mins up road. Well, it's not luck - we moved to be closer to her. Partly prompted by her 2 hospitalisations due to bouts of pneumonia! G
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Jun 2020
3:18pm, 11 Jun 2020
2,732 posts
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Little Miss Happy
We did the same in reverse Happy - moved the in laws to us as FiL's dementia worsened. So glad MiL is just a few minutes walk away.
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Jun 2020
3:48pm, 11 Jun 2020
17,693 posts
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EvilPixie
BBC is short of news they are doing the "how to wash your hands properly" thing again
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Jun 2020
3:59pm, 11 Jun 2020
37,764 posts
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LindsD
Billy was on the news last week. There was an item about plasma donation and he was in the background at the blood centre. Must have also been a slow news day as it was a good three weeks since we were there.
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Jun 2020
4:08pm, 11 Jun 2020
7,017 posts
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WA
Putting this here because I don't know where else to put it. I feel I've coped quite well with lockdown. The easing of lockdown has increased my anxiety level significantly. I feel quite sick at the prospect of seeing people (at whatever distance) for any length of time. Mr WA is on the phone to his mum telling her about the bubble possibilities and I just want to cry. It's irrational and selfish, and I've been going out seeing patients without worrying about it, but increased personal contact I'm finding incredibly stressful. Surely I should be overjoyed that things are changing?
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Jun 2020
4:09pm, 11 Jun 2020
17,694 posts
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EvilPixie
LOL
Well they have built the news on the virus for the last 5-6 months so get a bit lost now when the news is less
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Jun 2020
4:12pm, 11 Jun 2020
2,936 posts
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Irontubs
WA not at all, I share some of your anxieties
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Jun 2020
4:18pm, 11 Jun 2020
37,767 posts
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LindsD
I agree WA. Not at all. Change is always hard, and I also don't feel inclined to change my behaviour much. I don't feel reassured that it's that much safer. I'm sure you are not alone.
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Jun 2020
4:20pm, 11 Jun 2020
17,695 posts
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EvilPixie
WA I agree I know I haven't changed my behaviour as I don't want to catch anything - I'm not even using my bike outside just in case I desperately want to see mum but daren't (even if allowed) as I really don't want to pass anything on even though I don't think I have put myself at any risk
it's all so worrying and it frightens me when people don't take the virus seriously
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Jun 2020
4:33pm, 11 Jun 2020
8,438 posts
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leaguefreak
WA that's a really understandable reaction to change. And to threat. If you usually have a degree of anxiety so you have things you usually do to manage it? (No need to answer). If not there is some specific anxiety/covid info on Every Mind Matters. Its pretty basic so apols if teaching granny to suck eggs.
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