Transgender exercise - Lets Fetch Everyone
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Feb 2023
5:54pm, 4 Feb 2023
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NDWDave
My goal of being on this thread is to improve by understanding, and to be supportive of folks. I’ve been in a pride group at work which mainly has folks from the LGB bit (plus allied like me) but also covers the T+ bit. We added a gender inclusive toilet at work which might make a big difference to some but almost none to most. Gender reassignment surgery was also provided by the company if not covered by the state or private medical and the colleague had been employed for a year (that has a bigger potential cost implication but it is a massive company). I’ve try to use gender neutral language (inclusive?) at work (it was a French company so default was “he” e.g. the standard promotion form was “please explain why he deserves a promotion” : / … then it changed to “he or she”). I try to use they/person etc) I’m neither trans or female (as per fetch) so I don’t really understand the debate but I try to make small changes which make f*ck all difference to me but might make a huge difference to others Anyhow… as you were |
Feb 2023
5:59pm, 4 Feb 2023
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Raemond
Actually I have read a few pages of this thread and not seen any opposition to anyone receiving support to be who ever they want to be. Prehaps you could post a link Happy to be corrected if I've got the wrong end of the stick, but I in understood Fetch's intervention to mean that there have been complaints about the activity within this thread, which seemed unlikely to have come from participants here so I concluded are most likely to have come from folkx who are vocal in the other one and, I guess, lurking in here to keep tabs on us. |
Feb 2023
6:04pm, 4 Feb 2023
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DocM
Thank you NDW. I know attitudes like yours make a big difference to people.
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Feb 2023
6:25pm, 4 Feb 2023
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KatieB
To clarify, there have been complaints about multiple people with different viewpoints. I have posted it on both threads to give everyone the opportunity to read it. Complaints from both sides. Ian’s post on both threads. |
Feb 2023
6:38pm, 4 Feb 2023
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Vixx
Whilst I'm in this mood I will stay away I think. I don't need the hassle and I'm worried that I might say something I wouldn't normally. I certainly do not need people complaining about an opinion that I might (or already have) air/aired. Thank you for the support on Mom, I do appreciate it. |
Feb 2023
7:20pm, 4 Feb 2023
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KatieB
Take care, Vixx X |
Feb 2023
7:47pm, 4 Feb 2023
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ThorntonRunner
Yep - take care, and come back when you're ready. There's plenty of people on here who support you and care about you and yours.
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Feb 2023
8:27pm, 4 Feb 2023
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craig6p
I can't get into a debate about everything without it consuming far too much time, losing even more sleep etc. Also, people aren't just persuaded by well reasoned arguments. How people relate to you matters first, before people decide how to relate to what you say. But I think it's really valuable for there to be visible support for trans people, including opposition to views that belittle them or issues they're faced with. |
Feb 2023
9:00pm, 4 Feb 2023
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StuH
Thanks NDWDave, it really does make a difference. Thoughts with you and your family Vixx, take care. And thank you Ian |
Feb 2023
9:10pm, 4 Feb 2023
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-Monty-
Good grief…..🙄 🤦🏽♀️ Just caught up with everything from today, on both of the threads. Been a Fetchie since 2008 and sometimes feel that I just can’t be bothered being a member anymore 😔 |
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