The Retirement Thread

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Sep 2023
1:11pm, 7 Sep 2023
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Hanneke
I am with Macca... What are you worth to them? They are obviously in need of you!
Sep 2023
1:32pm, 7 Sep 2023
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Dave..M
Fizz :-) my experience may not be typical, but I took redundancy in 2020 and when my manager asked if I’d like to return as a contractor earlier this year I decided it was a good opportunity to top up our savings. After 6 months of full time, the contract has been extended but I’m only going to work 3 days a week. In general I’ve found that the knowledge that I don’t need to be there means a lot less stress, I can just do what needs to be done without worrying about office politics, performance reviews etc.
Sep 2023
1:52pm, 7 Sep 2023
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Mrs Jigs (Luverlylegs)
Fizz :-) Mixed feelings re the offer, on the one hand I think, yes! Do it just because of the manager’s earlier decision, I guess it was taken out of his hands? On the other hand I think, well, they had their chance! How about doing it for a month or two and the going anyway? an option?
Sep 2023
1:53pm, 7 Sep 2023
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EvilPixie
needs to be on your terms whatever you decide
Sep 2023
2:02pm, 7 Sep 2023
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Mrs Jigs (Luverlylegs)
Still feeling pressured to apply for the job in my current team, not sure whether to go along with it as I am not likely to see any changes for a while or be put on redeployment, I don’t intend to accept anything as unlikely to meet my hours etc, or whether to just give in my notice, I only want to hang on until the end of the year, I am finding this situation very stressful. Either way, I won’t get redundancy.
Sep 2023
2:07pm, 7 Sep 2023
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EvilPixie
if you won't get VR go on your terms Mrs Jigs and quit rather than play the game if you can
Sep 2023
2:31pm, 7 Sep 2023
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Lip Gloss
MrsJ if it’s not beneficial to you to be there any longer I would quit now.

54 work days and counting……just managed to get another couple of days off so even less than 54
Sep 2023
2:32pm, 7 Sep 2023
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EvilPixie
getting closer LG
Sep 2023
2:33pm, 7 Sep 2023
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GimmeMedals
If it isn't beneficial for you to stay, Mrs J, it will be beneficial for you to leave, as soon as you can.
Sep 2023
2:40pm, 7 Sep 2023
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Mrs Jigs (Luverlylegs)
I guess it’s only about the pay days I would lose if I quit now instead of December.

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