Jan 2023
11:34am, 23 Jan 2023
59,547 posts
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LindsD
That's awful, Dipps, but a massive breakthrough that she was open about it and the distress it has caused.
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Jan 2023
11:35am, 23 Jan 2023
27,675 posts
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Serendippily
You need a little hope i think jelly, not to be very short term in your entertainments. I hope he finds it
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Jan 2023
1:19pm, 23 Jan 2023
7,123 posts
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bigleggy
Jelly. Tell him to clean it up or the rent goes up if you have to do it. (What's the going rate for a cleaner, find out and tell him that's the price increase) Wouldn't get anywhere else cleaned for free unless he did it himself.
The way I see it is my house ain't a democracy. If they want to live like a pig they are more than welcome to ...... somewhere else.
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Jan 2023
2:20pm, 23 Jan 2023
38,984 posts
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halfpint
Dipps what were the school actually thinking with that homework?? Pleased she coped with it in a more healthy way.
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Jan 2023
2:26pm, 23 Jan 2023
38,985 posts
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halfpint
Really worried about not-a-teen. He’s been home 5 months and no change really. Hasn’t even registered with GP let alone get back on meds. He’s not even doing the things he used to enjoy. Climbing was the only remote positive and now he’s decided he hates the local wall. We had a heart to heart and he got upset. I just feel so powerless right now.
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Jan 2023
3:16pm, 23 Jan 2023
27,678 posts
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Serendippily
Im sorry HP it’s so hard to watch. I only have your good advice to offer about the potential for children to work things through and find a little resilience. Last year was hard and it used up our reserves of cash but still - i don’t regret new york. We all needed something extraordinary to look forward to. Is there anything similar as a future one off?
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Jan 2023
4:38pm, 23 Jan 2023
38,986 posts
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halfpint
I know he will get there eventually but it’s just tough right now. I drove him to the GP to drop the forms earlier. He can get an appointment from Wed probably. We’re going to go stay at my parents next weekend and go to Eden Rock (bouldering place) to try reignite his passion.
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Jan 2023
6:09pm, 23 Jan 2023
59,555 posts
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LindsD
Hugs HP
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Jan 2023
8:17pm, 23 Jan 2023
9,408 posts
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TeeBee
Hugs HP, Dipps (but well handled by teen) and everyone else who needs them.
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Jan 2023
9:23pm, 23 Jan 2023
59,562 posts
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LindsD
School was fine. Teacher is an idiot and LittleD doesn't help herself.
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