7 Aug
12:48pm, 7 Aug 2024
27,172 posts
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Bazoaxe
BiL may have had discussions, but of course he wont speak to us so we have no idea.
Apparently the consultant may be phoning this afternoon and the GP defo is. Also they didnt even know until Mrs Axe told them this morning that as recently as 2 weeks ago she was at home with 4 daily care visits.
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7 Aug
2:20pm, 7 Aug 2024
69,202 posts
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LindsD
Hope there is some clarity after the phone calls. Definitely hope the consultant calls.
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7 Aug
4:15pm, 7 Aug 2024
23,670 posts
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geordiegirl
I am suspicious about what BiL may have said to them too. Hope you can speak to someone and resolve
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7 Aug
4:43pm, 7 Aug 2024
21,226 posts
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Dave W
Cataract op done and dusted. Just need to see if it was a success now. Then the other one.
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7 Aug
4:46pm, 7 Aug 2024
69,212 posts
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LindsD
That's good news.
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7 Aug
6:16pm, 7 Aug 2024
7,304 posts
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Little Miss Happy
Hope it worked Dave.
BiL's involvement isn't at all helpful in this Baz. I hope the phone calls made things clearer.
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7 Aug
6:22pm, 7 Aug 2024
23,675 posts
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geordiegirl
Great news Dave
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7 Aug
6:38pm, 7 Aug 2024
331 posts
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kaysdee
What a mess, Baz. I’m so sorry.
Would MIL understand if it was explained to her? I’m all for informed consent, but my OH wouldn’t understand information such as this on more than a very superficial level and would become confused and distressed (as no doubt it would take quite a few attempts these days and he still wouldn’t really get it). I just worry that it would be traumatic for your MIL if “too much” information was given, but I understand a person’s right to be informed/consulted and everyone is individual when it comes to dementia and age.
He is in a care home now but I’ve had to basically lie to OH on more than one occasion recently as an act of kindness.
I hope you get further answers soon.
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7 Aug
7:42pm, 7 Aug 2024
76,952 posts
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Lip Gloss
Tough one still Baz. Hope you feel the benefit Dave.
50 years of clutter/stuff have now been disposed of and we are done.
Tomorrow is a tidy of the front garden and Friday lock the door for the last time. We are knackered.
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7 Aug
7:54pm, 7 Aug 2024
19,497 posts
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Mandymoo
Sounds like it has been a lot of hard work xx
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