Sep 2023
6:39pm, 25 Sep 2023
25,643 posts
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Bazoaxe
mil would change the PoA if she could. I just dont want Mrs Axe or I to have any part to play in that and she has to do so herself.
Anyway, we had a lovely day today but MiL looked worn out and so we put her off to bed. BiL had delivered the medication at some point yesterday afternoon/evening, but not so much as a card for his Mum.
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Sep 2023
7:33pm, 25 Sep 2023
28,036 posts
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Lizzie Whizz
My first ever ambulance ride down to the Other Hospital where the relevant Surgeon lives. It's fairly sure to be what we assumed from the start which is going to be tough.
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Sep 2023
7:34pm, 25 Sep 2023
47,172 posts
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EvilPixie
Hugs LW Take care
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Sep 2023
7:55pm, 25 Sep 2023
34,658 posts
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Ness
Hugs, LW.
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Sep 2023
8:53pm, 25 Sep 2023
71,426 posts
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Lip Gloss
Big hugs LW. Remember we are here for you x
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Sep 2023
9:09pm, 25 Sep 2023
17,413 posts
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Mandymoo
Hugs LW xx
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Sep 2023
11:20pm, 25 Sep 2023
2,282 posts
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CK2
That’s tough LW. I hope it goes as smoothly as possible.
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Sep 2023
11:57pm, 25 Sep 2023
29,140 posts
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Serendippily
Sending love Lizzie
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Sep 2023
9:31am, 26 Sep 2023
6,670 posts
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Little Miss Happy
I hope she’s comfortable Lizzie.
Sounds like a very difficult situation Baz.
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Sep 2023
7:12am, 28 Sep 2023
28,045 posts
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Lizzie Whizz
Head dump apologies for any triggers I think I'm looking for a book or list of "what to do before someone has risky surgery without being too pessimistic" rather than "what to do when someone dies" book. I'm thinking about little phone calls with family (hospital unit is not great for visiting and most close family is abroad). I think all her admin info (passwords etc) are written down somewhere safe. Feels wrong to even be thinking about. I will talk to my aunt today who knows about things, but she is in Norway.
So we are not much progressed: Mum is in hospital, out of A&E but not on a surgical ward as no beds. Definitely obstructed, they're not sure why, for discussion with surgeons today, almost certainly excision of part of bowel & stoma. Not looking for sympathy just an objective space.
Talking to Dad yesterday I realised he hasn't had the imagination to realise how bad she is, so he's a bit shocked. Their church is great & people are rallying round, so I know he's OK, very grateful.
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