Elderly parents or relatives to care for and/or worry about? This is the place for you.

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DocM
Looks like every page on my dads
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Markymarkmark
Every page, I think D2. <wince>.
D2
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D2
Ok thank you very much, fair enough I suppose! Thats a job for tomorrow if possible then.
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LazyDaisy


One of the carers at Mum's home made this bag for her zimmerframe. Because Mum loves her biscuits Carola made some applique biscuits to personalise it for her. I think that's so kind of her. :-)
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Little Miss Happy
That's lovely Daisy - both the bag and the thought.
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Velociraptor
I love that, LD :)
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minardi
How wonderful
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Lip Gloss
Lovely bag :-)

My poor FIL - his dementia is so rapid ( 6 weeks ), just waiting to get a place in a care home :-(
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LindsD
That's really lovely.

Sorry to hear that, LG
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LindsD
(we haven't got copies yet, which bothers me. The bloody solicitor still has them)

About This Thread

Maintained by LindsD
I thought I'd start a thread, as lots of us have elderly folks that we worry about/care for.

Useful info for after someone dies here (with thanks to grast_girl)
moneysavingexpert.com

Other useful links

myageingparent.com

moneysavingexpert.com

Who pays for residential care? Information here:

ageuk.org.uk

Advice on care homes and payment/funding

theguardian.com

Also: After someone dies, if their home insurance was only in their name, sadly the cover becomes void. But if the policy was in joint names, it will still cover the surviving policyholder (though the names on the policy will need to be updated).

A useful book of exercises for memory loss and dementia
amazon.co.uk

Pension Credit. The rules are a bit complex but if your elderly relative has some sort of disability (in this case dementia/Alzheimer's) and go into a home, they may be able to claim pension credit. So if carers allowance stops, it seems pension credit can start. It can also be backdated.

Fall alarm company, etc.

careium.co.uk

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