Feb 2013
10:30am, 27 Feb 2013
2,933 posts
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daviec
I completely went off the mother of my two older kids when we lived together. Ended up in separate rooms etc, but I thought that was OK... at the time. I hadn't lost my sex drive, she just repulsed me. I would have been quite happy to go on like that but she went elsewhere to satisfy her needs. My immediate thoughts were to congratulate the poor guy on being so brave and/or drunk to manage it. She left me for him (on my birthday, bets pressie ever!) and he promptly left her about 2 weeks later. Which was nice
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Feb 2013
10:36am, 27 Feb 2013
15,137 posts
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JohnnyO
THis is getting a bit more Jeremy Kyle, I like it.
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Feb 2013
10:37am, 27 Feb 2013
2,311 posts
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The Scribbler
It seems like a lot of people here have experience of or see giving up sex as a sign that the relationship is in trouble anyway. But is that always the case? What if a couple still enjoy being together, have a lot of shared history and are in a supportive and generally happy relationship, just aren't 'doing the do'? Is there an age limit on when that happens?
I think everyone's different. And just as there will be older couples still very active, there may be younger ones who just aren't that bothered any more.
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Feb 2013
10:40am, 27 Feb 2013
24,233 posts
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Velociraptor
And maybe some of 'em have decided to have this "asexuality" thing that's currently where it's at according to the media
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Feb 2013
10:50am, 27 Feb 2013
5,436 posts
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The Teaboy
Pity those of us who want it and can't get it!
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Feb 2013
10:57am, 27 Feb 2013
12,067 posts
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Meglet
What Richmac said...
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Feb 2013
11:00am, 27 Feb 2013
6,841 posts
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McGoohan
Scribbler - I think that's a very valid point. I don't particularly relish the idea of being the age where physical activity becomes less likely. Either way, it has to be a mutual thing though.
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Feb 2013
11:04am, 27 Feb 2013
5,743 posts
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Oysterboy
In my view if you aren't doing it then you're just friends.
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Feb 2013
11:05am, 27 Feb 2013
22 posts
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Endorphins Junky
I'm with Scribbler also - each to his/her own, applies to couples as well.
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Feb 2013
11:07am, 27 Feb 2013
17,153 posts
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Johnny Blaze
There's a lot to be said for being friends though. Some married couples aren't.
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