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Feb 2013
1:43pm, 28 Feb 2013
24,064 posts
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JenL
"Well yes to having sex with the other person because you fancy them. When they refuse you this must mean they don't fancy you, right?"
em...no
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Feb 2013
1:43pm, 28 Feb 2013
24,065 posts
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JenL
I mean no it doesn't necessarily mean that at all
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Feb 2013
1:44pm, 28 Feb 2013
24,066 posts
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JenL
But not doing it isn't the same as "withholding it"
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Feb 2013
1:45pm, 28 Feb 2013
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Pootle
Caterpillar is this your ex wife you are using as an example?
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Feb 2013
1:45pm, 28 Feb 2013
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Caterpillar
When does it become withholding?
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Feb 2013
1:46pm, 28 Feb 2013
24,067 posts
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JenL
Women don't necessarily choose not to have sex just to spite their husbands or get back at them for something. There are lots of reasons we might not want to.
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Feb 2013
1:46pm, 28 Feb 2013
10,297 posts
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runner duck
but it isn't about emptying the dishwasher, caterpillar. i don't know who you are talking about if it's anyone real but i do think they probably don't know why they don't want it. or they do know and don't want to or can't say.
you do seem to be thinking that it's what all women who don't want sex say. i can say hand on heart i have never said anything remotely like that!
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Feb 2013
1:47pm, 28 Feb 2013
7,546 posts
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Caterpillar
No no! Mrs Caterpillar and I have been married for 31 years! If we can't talk about stuff like this now there is no hope for anyone. All just hypothetical.
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Feb 2013
1:47pm, 28 Feb 2013
24,068 posts
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JenL
I'd say it's withholding if your starting place is "You didn't do X for me so I'm not doing sex"
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Feb 2013
1:47pm, 28 Feb 2013
9,379 posts
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Pootle
I can't actually imagine with holding sex from husband because he won't unload the dishwasher 
That sounds fucked up, sorry.
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