The benefits of giving up alcohol

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7:54am, 31 Dec 2021
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mrs shanksi
I agree Sigh. Good morning all, I'm in today.
Dec 2021
8:20am, 31 Dec 2021
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Merry Christmas and Happy NewG(rrr)
Theoretically a tough day for us - but given how great everyone is doing, I have every confidence.

A zero alcohol end to the year and start to next for me, and I hope for one and all. Very best wishes to all my TBOGUA thread pals. :-) G
Dec 2021
8:43am, 31 Dec 2021
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GrinchHunt59
Morning all. I'm in. Hangover free parkrun tomorrow sounds good to me.
Dec 2021
8:48am, 31 Dec 2021
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Derby Tup
I hate New Year. Always an anti-climax. All the more reason to avoid drink. I’m in!
Dec 2021
8:52am, 31 Dec 2021
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LindsD
What DT said. I'm in. It's my soberversary tomorrow.
Dec 2021
9:20am, 31 Dec 2021
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Looby Loo
I’ve got a bottle of non alcohol fizz being delivered in the online shop.

Never really liked new year so no more difficult than any other day for me. Thankfully
Best Wishes to everyone for 2022
Dec 2021
9:31am, 31 Dec 2021
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GrinchHunt59
Don't think I have been out on New Year's Eve this century. Last time may have been 1996 when I saw Eric Clapton doing his annual fundraising gig at Woking Sport Centre. Tickets were basic and band played under pseudonym of 'Men with no legs' IIRC. Cost £20 I think. Was on for a long time. Was great to be at a gig with no alcohol.
Dec 2021
9:32am, 31 Dec 2021
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Rosehip
I have non-alcoholic fizz too, I may have a glass of the leaded version - but only a glass.
Stopping completely was never the intention, part of me wants to test my ability to have just the one occasionally and part of me is scared to.
Dec 2021
9:47am, 31 Dec 2021
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Winter WAnderland
I've got n/a fizz too. New Year was always about my friends, first a friend from school whose birthday is 31st December, then a uni friend who always had a fantastic party at NYE. Sadly he's no longer with us. Tonight I'll be ferrying the girls around- a good a reason as any to stay sober
Dec 2021
10:55am, 31 Dec 2021
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Fiofio
Hi everyone,

I have lurked on this thread many times and finally am ready to commit. I have been drinking half a bottle of wine+ since I had my second baby over two years ago. I suffer with depression and I know I am only doing myself a disservice. I want 2022 to be a better year for me and my family and really feel like the alcohol needs to reduce dramatically. I have a long history of eating disorders so the idea of cutting it out all together fills me with fear of restriction and all that comes with that. And yet I feel like cutting down isn't good enough - a bit half arsed maybe.

So anyway I'm going to take it one day at a time and hopefully it will gather some momentum. Sorry for the ramble! I think you are all very inspiring!

About This Thread

Maintained by HappyG(rrr)
Looks as though this thread has become popular again, here in 2010 (it's now 2024, and it started in 2008, so I think "ever popular" might be more apt! :-) G ) :-) Good Luck everyone.

A recent plea for those struggling to "reach out" as they say in US of A!

"Anyone not feeling strong and confident, please shout out. Or fmail. Or any other comms that works. Don't drink alcohol when you don't want to, for lack of someone to talk to. Pick up the phone, not the bottle."

Some acronyms, in case people use them:
JFT - Just for today
ODAAT - One day at a time
KIS - Keep it simple
TBOGUA - The Benefits Of Giving Up Alcohol (the title of this thread!)

New feature: article/blog of the month (period may change randomly!) Swittle's wonderful 14,611 days blog: (see links below)

Linking Joopsy's 17 year blog too, cos it's awesome!

There is a GREAT article summarising some of the benefits, to save you having to trawl through the thread (includes links to helpful apps and other resources).

And a great list of Alternative Drinks started by the lovely LindsD:

Please add to these articles and make them as valuable as possible! Thanks! :-) G

And one from way back when...
Dirt Monkey's brilliant blog on TBOGUA too - go try this...

Rebel has recommended a couple of good books:
The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober: THE SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER
by Catherine Gray

The Alcohol Experiment: 30 Days to Take Control, Cut Down or Give Up For Good
by Annie Grace

A great response from a health professional in Ireland responding to a question from a Guardian reader about why the warnings on alcoholic drinks that are coming in:

theguardian.com

"Alcohol is responsible for at least 1,000 cancer cases every year in Ireland, with one in eight breast cancer cases arising from alcohol use. Even one to two drinks per day increases the risk of developing cancer, and that risk is the same whether those drinks are wine, spirits or beer. Unfortunately, there is a very low level of public awareness that alcohol has been classed as a Group 1 carcinogen, meaning it is carcinogenic to humans. That is why Ireland has passed legislation that provides for health information labels on alcohol products, including warnings about cancer, liver disease and the danger of drinking in pregnancy. It is unsurprising that the alcohol industry, which promotes its products with carefully crafted myths of good times for all, is objecting to the mandatory provision of facts (Anger brews in Italy over Ireland’s plans for alcohol health warnings, 12 January).
Dr Sheila Gilheany
CEO, Alcohol Action Ireland
"

And the all important fabulous services:
Alcoholics Anonymous
National Helpline (FREE) 0800 9177 650
help@aamail.org

Al Anon
020 7403 0888

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We're adding in our own Fetch offer of one to one contact too, for anyone who doesn't want to post in the thread for whatever reason. Please feel free to fmail ANY of the names listed below.

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HappyG(rrr)
( Oscar the grouch RIP )
mrs shanksi
Derby Tup
iaincr
Love Lettuce
DocM
LindsD
GeneHunt59
GregP star
Joopsy star

Note: we're none of us experts, but we're happy to listen, to answer any questions and to offer support if you think it would help you. Except star marked above. Who are experts! :-)

(Note II: at Christmas some names may change a bit, but I'm sure you can still find us to fmail!)

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