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The benefits of giving up alcohol

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Derby Tup
Welcome and best wishes Fiofio

One day at a time is the thing. As we often say today is the only day that matters. Good luck
Dec 2021
11:03am, 31 Dec 2021
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Nord SledRunner
Well done, Fiofio. Maybe the fear comes from thinking that it is hard to promise «for ever» about something you might «need» one day. Nobody here is guaranteeing forever for themselves. We just decide about today and then do it. Then maybe one day the «need» might not be so real after all.
Dec 2021
11:10am, 31 Dec 2021
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Looby Loo
Big welcome Fiofio take it one day at a time.
I have found alcohol to be a depressant.
Short term high but I always felt quite low after it. Good luck
Dec 2021
11:13am, 31 Dec 2021
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Winter WAnderland
Welcome to Fetch and to the thread Fiofio. As the others have said, it's only today that matters.
Dec 2021
11:27am, 31 Dec 2021
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Grast_girl
Welcome Fiofio. There are cut downers on here too. I can see why restricting can be a dangerous position to put yourself in, although at least you don't need alcohol to stay well (quite the opposite in fact). Maybe the low/no alcohol alternatives would be helpful. I think there is a list ---->

I'm in for today (no wine currently open) and tomorrow (at in laws that don't drink). In theory we have a 60th birthday party on the 2nd, but if we go we'll be wearing masks the whole time, so drinking probably won't be a priority.
Dec 2021
12:10pm, 31 Dec 2021
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LindsD
welcome Fiofio
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12:11pm, 31 Dec 2021
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mrs shanksi
Welcome to the thread Fiofio, take it one day at a time, and all the best to you.
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12:17pm, 31 Dec 2021
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GrinchHunt59
Welcome Fiofio. All any of us can do is one day at a time.
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1:42pm, 31 Dec 2021
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Merry Christmas and Happy NewG(rrr)
I'll add my welcome too Fiofio. Great advice from thread already. Just think about today is a great pointer. Maybe also try and look at it as something positive - number of days with good health, rather than days without something? Different ways of thinking work for different people. Very best of luck to you. And check in with us regularly to discuss how it is going for you?

Hope everyone has a great night and a wonderful start to 2022. :-) G
Dec 2021
4:30pm, 31 Dec 2021
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Looby Loo
Just a note to those who may blip don’t be afraid come back to say there’s no judging here. I’m not completely Alcohol Free yet but I keep on going and resetting the counter.

About This Thread

Maintained by HappyG(rrr)
Looks as though this thread has become popular again, here in 2010 (it's now 2024, and it started in 2008, so I think "ever popular" might be more apt! :-) G ) :-) Good Luck everyone.

A recent plea for those struggling to "reach out" as they say in US of A!

"Anyone not feeling strong and confident, please shout out. Or fmail. Or any other comms that works. Don't drink alcohol when you don't want to, for lack of someone to talk to. Pick up the phone, not the bottle."

Some acronyms, in case people use them:
JFT - Just for today
ODAAT - One day at a time
KIS - Keep it simple
TBOGUA - The Benefits Of Giving Up Alcohol (the title of this thread!)

New feature: article/blog of the month (period may change randomly!) Swittle's wonderful 14,611 days blog: (see links below)

Linking Joopsy's 17 year blog too, cos it's awesome!

There is a GREAT article summarising some of the benefits, to save you having to trawl through the thread (includes links to helpful apps and other resources).

And a great list of Alternative Drinks started by the lovely LindsD:

Please add to these articles and make them as valuable as possible! Thanks! :-) G

And one from way back when...
Dirt Monkey's brilliant blog on TBOGUA too - go try this...

Rebel has recommended a couple of good books:
The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober: THE SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER
by Catherine Gray

The Alcohol Experiment: 30 Days to Take Control, Cut Down or Give Up For Good
by Annie Grace

A great response from a health professional in Ireland responding to a question from a Guardian reader about why the warnings on alcoholic drinks that are coming in:

theguardian.com

"Alcohol is responsible for at least 1,000 cancer cases every year in Ireland, with one in eight breast cancer cases arising from alcohol use. Even one to two drinks per day increases the risk of developing cancer, and that risk is the same whether those drinks are wine, spirits or beer. Unfortunately, there is a very low level of public awareness that alcohol has been classed as a Group 1 carcinogen, meaning it is carcinogenic to humans. That is why Ireland has passed legislation that provides for health information labels on alcohol products, including warnings about cancer, liver disease and the danger of drinking in pregnancy. It is unsurprising that the alcohol industry, which promotes its products with carefully crafted myths of good times for all, is objecting to the mandatory provision of facts (Anger brews in Italy over Ireland’s plans for alcohol health warnings, 12 January).
Dr Sheila Gilheany
CEO, Alcohol Action Ireland
"

And the all important fabulous services:
Alcoholics Anonymous
National Helpline (FREE) 0800 9177 650
help@aamail.org

Al Anon
020 7403 0888

medal medal Contact TBOGUA medal medal

We're adding in our own Fetch offer of one to one contact too, for anyone who doesn't want to post in the thread for whatever reason. Please feel free to fmail ANY of the names listed below.

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HappyG(rrr)
( Oscar the grouch RIP )
mrs shanksi
Derby Tup
iaincr
Love Lettuce
DocM
LindsD
GeneHunt59
GregP star
Joopsy star

Note: we're none of us experts, but we're happy to listen, to answer any questions and to offer support if you think it would help you. Except star marked above. Who are experts! :-)

(Note II: at Christmas some names may change a bit, but I'm sure you can still find us to fmail!)
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