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The benefits of giving up alcohol

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1:39pm, 30 Mar 2020
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mrs shanksi
I'm still in, wishing everyone well.
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1:44pm, 30 Mar 2020
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Derby Tup
Couple of weeks off eighteen months for me, and no drinks planned today

Stay safe all

ODAAT indeed
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1:45pm, 30 Mar 2020
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LindsD
Maybe. I'm quite enjoying a lot of this. Perhaps I am suited to it.
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Diogenes
I think maybe I'm not. I've had 18 days on/off. Planning to start again from Wednesday, if not before.
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HappyG(rrr)
Yes, quite happy here, thank you!

A few thoughts - I know lots of folk are medicating with alcohol. Lots of memes on FB etc. showing it seems to be a common reaction. Like "I'm on holiday, time to have wine for breakfast" to "The world is ending anyway, might as well party" to well meaning "Online parties to keep spirits up - open the champers" type stuff. And comedy videos of mums/dads at home, with kids all day, with a lunch box juice carton on Sauvignon Blanc.

So not everyone is embracing our abstinence! I'd rather be me though! Can't imagine going through these tough times AND having to deal with being drunk and fuzzy through it!

Keep on keeping off it folks! :-) G
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2:09pm, 30 Mar 2020
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DocM
i think its harder now. still very much cut down, but im thinking of opening a bottle more often although not actually doing it
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LindsD
I don't want to imagine my anxiety levels if I was drinking.
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Metro_Nome
I’ve been on and off the wagon. Definitely doing some self medicating with alcohol sorry :( BUT less than I would have been before I started here
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Totriornottotri
I drank on Friday and Saturday after 12 days off. I started thedrinksbusiness.com this last night - I was really impressed. I think the Juniper Kick comes out really well.
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mrs shanksi
My anxiety levels are through the roof, I'm not enjoying this situation at all.

About This Thread

Maintained by HappyG(rrr)
Looks as though this thread has become popular again, here in 2010 (it's now 2024, and it started in 2008, so I think "ever popular" might be more apt! :-) G ) :-) Good Luck everyone.

A recent plea for those struggling to "reach out" as they say in US of A!

"Anyone not feeling strong and confident, please shout out. Or fmail. Or any other comms that works. Don't drink alcohol when you don't want to, for lack of someone to talk to. Pick up the phone, not the bottle."

Some acronyms, in case people use them:
JFT - Just for today
ODAAT - One day at a time
KIS - Keep it simple
TBOGUA - The Benefits Of Giving Up Alcohol (the title of this thread!)

New feature: article/blog of the month (period may change randomly!) Swittle's wonderful 14,611 days blog: (see links below)

Linking Joopsy's 17 year blog too, cos it's awesome!

There is a GREAT article summarising some of the benefits, to save you having to trawl through the thread (includes links to helpful apps and other resources).

And a great list of Alternative Drinks started by the lovely LindsD:

Please add to these articles and make them as valuable as possible! Thanks! :-) G

And one from way back when...
Dirt Monkey's brilliant blog on TBOGUA too - go try this...

Rebel has recommended a couple of good books:
The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober: THE SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER
by Catherine Gray

The Alcohol Experiment: 30 Days to Take Control, Cut Down or Give Up For Good
by Annie Grace

A great response from a health professional in Ireland responding to a question from a Guardian reader about why the warnings on alcoholic drinks that are coming in:

theguardian.com

"Alcohol is responsible for at least 1,000 cancer cases every year in Ireland, with one in eight breast cancer cases arising from alcohol use. Even one to two drinks per day increases the risk of developing cancer, and that risk is the same whether those drinks are wine, spirits or beer. Unfortunately, there is a very low level of public awareness that alcohol has been classed as a Group 1 carcinogen, meaning it is carcinogenic to humans. That is why Ireland has passed legislation that provides for health information labels on alcohol products, including warnings about cancer, liver disease and the danger of drinking in pregnancy. It is unsurprising that the alcohol industry, which promotes its products with carefully crafted myths of good times for all, is objecting to the mandatory provision of facts (Anger brews in Italy over Ireland’s plans for alcohol health warnings, 12 January).
Dr Sheila Gilheany
CEO, Alcohol Action Ireland
"

And the all important fabulous services:
Alcoholics Anonymous
National Helpline (FREE) 0800 9177 650
help@aamail.org

Al Anon
020 7403 0888

medal medal Contact TBOGUA medal medal

We're adding in our own Fetch offer of one to one contact too, for anyone who doesn't want to post in the thread for whatever reason. Please feel free to fmail ANY of the names listed below.

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HappyG(rrr)
( Oscar the grouch RIP )
mrs shanksi
Derby Tup
iaincr
Love Lettuce
DocM
LindsD
GeneHunt59
GregP star
Joopsy star

Note: we're none of us experts, but we're happy to listen, to answer any questions and to offer support if you think it would help you. Except star marked above. Who are experts! :-)

(Note II: at Christmas some names may change a bit, but I'm sure you can still find us to fmail!)
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