Who are all the single Fetchies!!

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halfpint Sep 2022 7:22pm, 11 Sep 2022 38,103 posts	0 halfpint Sooo will you see him again?
Red Squirrel Sep 2022 5:13pm, 12 Sep 2022 22,373 posts	0 Red Squirrel Dunno HP. For a man with a multi-country upbringing, he was quite parochial. V well-travelled but sounds like he goes all-inclusive with his kids, so a bit unadventurous with food outside his culture. Has had 2 wives. I think first died and second divorced. Kept changing subject about that. Kids (teens -20s) live with him. He is v well-off and attractive. I have a suspicion he's fussy and then possibly controlling. I feel a bit sad for him. I feel like he needs to chill out a bit. Reminded me of my ex-narc boyfriend a bit.
Nick Cook Sep 2022 10:47pm, 12 Sep 2022 36,069 posts	0 Nick Cook I'm still seeing/talking to the delightful Debby. She still only wants to be friends, but I'm encouraged by the interaction. I'm not pushing things though!
Hanneke Sep 2022 11:13pm, 12 Sep 2022 92,706 posts	0 Hanneke Just enjoy her friendship, no expectations, Nick.
Nick Cook Sep 2022 11:24pm, 12 Sep 2022 36,071 posts	0 Nick Cook 👍
Meglet Sep 2022 7:33am, 13 Sep 2022 22,965 posts	0 Meglet I think there’s a few red flags there RS.
Red Squirrel Sep 2022 11:17am, 13 Sep 2022 22,375 posts	0 Red Squirrel There are unfortunately Meglet. He's the only bloke who engaged properly on Bumble. Only short sentence answers from the others. Like pulling teeth. Ah well.
Hanneke Sep 2022 12:49pm, 13 Sep 2022 92,715 posts	0 Hanneke At least your experience confirms why I don't bother with it any more. Sometimes I think: shall I try again? But no... A waste of my energy. I met someone in the wild at the weekend, who seemed nice but I had a slightly uneasy feeling about him being too desperate/clingy and rightly so as, after a few drinks by the Saturday night campfire, as the clock struck midnight, it transpires he is in a seriously unhappy marriage and, my interpretation, was trying to find a katalyst to break away from that. SIGH! After 2 hours of counselling I was totally drained, went to bed, could not sleep from his negative, sapping energy. The next morning he tried getting my contact details as he wanted to come and see my permaculture project. Yeah, right! Brushed him off and left. Think about how much more energy would have been invested in him had one done things on line!!! I MUST stop attracting people that are in a relationship!!! What is this? It keeps happening...
hgreav Sep 2022 12:52pm, 13 Sep 2022 111 posts	0 hgreav Oh Hanneke I have the same problem!
Hanneke Sep 2022 12:55pm, 13 Sep 2022 92,718 posts	0 Hanneke Hmmm... It is probably them, not us actually. I was definitely not sending out any signals of availability...