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Mar 2018
6:30pm, 1 Mar 2018
69,865 posts
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Hanneke
I seem to attract those bloody nutcases!!! FFS, I thought he was sorted, he seemed sorted and should have been after years of psychoanalysis as part of his training as a psychotherapist. Then again, they should really continue with regular analysis, considering their job, to stay sane. On top of that, I had conveniently put it to the back of my mind that almost all psychoanalists, psychotherapists and psychologists are mad...
I am going to stay on this shelf forever, please, please remind me of this when I make the slightest sound about wanting to go out with someone 
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Mar 2018
9:33pm, 1 Mar 2018
25,260 posts
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halfpint
Psychologists are mad you say. How very dare you?
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Mar 2018
9:40pm, 1 Mar 2018
69,867 posts
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Hanneke
Psychologists are the sanest of the lot
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Mar 2018
9:42pm, 1 Mar 2018
13,052 posts
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HowFar?
I was waiting for the response from the frozen north!
Sorry to hear the news, Hann. What a terrible run of bonkers individuals you're having.
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Mar 2018
9:45pm, 1 Mar 2018
69,868 posts
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Hanneke
In all seriousness he has left me to feel threatened, as if he has done or taken something I haven't found out yet that is really quite bad...
He had eaten half of one of my pre-prepared salads I buy for my lunches sometimes, and I confronted him with it... he should have said/asked when he did it, as it left me without a pre-yoga teaching meal last Thursday... He also broke the whisk, and was really weird about it... Saying it was as if someone had come into the house, disturbed the dishes, driopping the whisk and standing on it. Now, that is a scenario and a half!!! Then he asked, is there anything else missing? He suggested that it hadn't been him, but he has been the only other person in the house... I am now started to wonder if he actually took something of mine. He was in the house on his own for the first time on Sunday... He accused friends, workmen, half the village... mentioning EVERYONE knew where the key was left. errr, actually, no, if I leave a key for someone, it is always in a different place... and I don't leave a key lightly.
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Mar 2018
9:48pm, 1 Mar 2018
69,869 posts
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Hanneke
He also said he hadn't seen me in weeks, while we had seen each other only days before. He lives in a parallel universe! I think he was gaslighting, projecting and sexualising so much he didn't know what was real or not any more. Haha!
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Mar 2018
9:54pm, 1 Mar 2018
13,053 posts
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HowFar?
He doesn't still have a key for your place though, does he?
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Mar 2018
10:32pm, 1 Mar 2018
69,870 posts
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Hanneke
No! Thank goodness... I had left it in 'his' special place, but it is now inside the house.
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Mar 2018
9:55am, 2 Mar 2018
20,615 posts
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Red Squirrel
The old film is actually called Gaslight.
Hann, you need to go and get your stuff now. I had a similar in issues in my 20s and didn't end up getting my furniture back as the bloke kept fobbing me off. He was on a good salary too and I wasn't. Some people just don't care about others. Another bloody troubled soul it sounds like. My ex-NPD man has also been in touch recently and was highly inappropriate. I cut the call sharpish. Didn't know it was him at first as I'd deleted the contact.
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Mar 2018
1:03pm, 2 Mar 2018
25,266 posts
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halfpint
Hann do you still speak to the friend? Could he help with the furniture....and reignite that friendship??
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