The benefits of giving up alcohol
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9 Feb
8:11am, 9 Feb 2025
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Mrs Jigs (Luverlylegs)
I am here ✋️
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9 Feb
8:26am, 9 Feb 2025
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mrs shanksi
Morning, I'm here too.
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9 Feb
8:38am, 9 Feb 2025
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MaT.T
I'm in For me the buzz is right here right now in breathing, being able to move, being able to write messages on an online forum, being able to experience the miracles of the cosmos in every second, knowing all my ups and downs are temporary and ultimately the same thing. The present moment is my only reality. The rest is in my mind. There is a lot of history and conditioning in there. Which is why it's all so difficult and why I may reach for the alcohol free beer that still gives me a buzz. Or the biscuits. Or the phone. Or the coffee. Or the edibles. Or the chamomile. Dare I say the running shoes? Thing is it is nuanced, what has a negative impact for me, may not for another, what has a negative impact today may not tomorrow. Yesterday I had two biscuits. It felt right at the time. It still does. There was anxiety, I know where two biscuits have led previously. If I made the same choice today it could be the opposite. I may not be able to stop at two. It may lead to weeks of poor consumption. It still may. It may be the opposite for somebody else. Is not just about how having two biscuits or not may affect me physically though, it's the mental aspect, the knock on affect of these decisions on my loved ones. Where it may lead. No consumption decision is totally black or white, good or bad, right or wrong. All I have is my awareness. One day at a time. I'm just addicted to escaping the fear that tomorrow may be as bad as yesterday or today. To not stopping. To not feeling. To suppressing. Billions of pounds are spent persuading me to do just that. And feeling can be really hard. I'm so glad I make the decisions I do regards consumption more often than not now but boy do I feel more than I ever did and often look at others who still consume in ways I once did, I still do sometimes with food and screens, and think that was it sometimes easier back when I suppressed everything? One could argue that I am addicted to consuming and living mindfully now. It certainly still comes with it's fair share of suffering and suppression. All opinions only. In this moment. My truth is ever changing. Thankfully. What a beautiful world. Big love beautiful family x Big love to all you amazing beings. |
9 Feb
8:45am, 9 Feb 2025
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LindsD
Thank you M.a.T.T. I'm in |
9 Feb
9:24am, 9 Feb 2025
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Jaks
Thanks MaT.T Also in for today. |
9 Feb
9:30am, 9 Feb 2025
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Rebel
Thank you Matt. You made me think (an unusual thing at this time of the day). I’m in |
9 Feb
11:28am, 9 Feb 2025
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HappyG(rrr)
Must read later. In for a busy Sunday. Have a fab sober day everyone. ![]() |
9 Feb
12:23pm, 9 Feb 2025
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Sigh
Thanks, @MaT.T ![]() |
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12:41pm, 9 Feb 2025
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plodding hippo
Morning. In for today
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9 Feb
7:09pm, 9 Feb 2025
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Looby Loo
I am still here.
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Useful Links
FE accepts no responsibility for external links. Or anything, really.- Al-Anon
- Alcoholics Anonymous
- Swittle's wonderful 14,611 days blog
- Rebel's brilliant blog of history to non drinking :-)
- There is No Wall, book by ultra runner Allie Bailey
- A Summary of the benefits
- I Am Sober
- LindsD's Alternative Drinks
- Drink Aware
- Joopsy's 17 year blog
- Swittle's excellent 42 years sober blog :-) G
- Guardian article about problems with alcohol (free just now, but may not be in future...?!) :-) G
- Maclennane's excellent blog on his journey. Nice! :-)
- Sigh's brilliant 1000 blog! :-)
- Dirt Monkey's Wordpress Blog
- Excellent blog by Gobi of 37 years sober :-) G
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