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The benefits of giving up alcohol

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Aug 2008
7:20pm, 16 Aug 2008
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Dave_B
Good luck Finders, I'm doing the same thing at the moment so I'll join up!! Tomorrow wil be two weeks since I last had a drink (god, I sound like I'm at an AA meeting!) The plan was to have a month off completely but may try and go a bit longer. Used to have a few cans every night - The first week was a bit of a struggle (especially the weekend) but havent really noticed it this week.
Aug 2008
7:25pm, 16 Aug 2008
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Finders
Thats really reassuring Dave and really well done you :-)
Its my second night and altho its a Saturday it won't be as bad as during the week when I'm far more stressed and in need of a drink in the evenings.
I took my motorbike out this eve and i'll make sure i do most evenings then i'll not be tempted to drink i think!
Aug 2008
7:25pm, 16 Aug 2008
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mxhornet
I'll not be joining you. I'm just back from a chunder mile, to those who don't know what it is, it involves drinking four pints during the course of a mile race !!
Aug 2008
7:26pm, 16 Aug 2008
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HarryB
Hornet, I reckon we should sort a Fetch one, mate... thoughts?
Aug 2008
7:28pm, 16 Aug 2008
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The_Saint
Most of the alcohol thing seems to be about sex and excuses.
A key component of my personality is that I hate anything that isn't real - chemically altering your mind and your perceptions means that you are not experiencing reality.
People want there to be something like religious reasons for this but I have no religion. Unintelligent people get identically twitter and bisted about the fact that I eat fish when there is no alternative but I never eat meat - my simple reasoning that it is what I consider best for my health doesn't seem to be a good enough reason.

I think a key component of being unintelligent is that someone is afraid of anyone who does not conform to their
Aug 2008
7:28pm, 16 Aug 2008
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The_Saint
Oops "narrow view of the world" that should have finished
Aug 2008
7:30pm, 16 Aug 2008
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Gobi
no alcohol since 1987 for me :¬0
Aug 2008
7:31pm, 16 Aug 2008
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HarryB
"Most of the alcohol thing seems to be about sex and excuses"

That's what life is, isn't it?
Aug 2008
7:32pm, 16 Aug 2008
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The_Saint
No need for excuses - I think the maxim "Never apologise, never explain" is a bit extreme but I understand the point
Aug 2008
7:40pm, 16 Aug 2008
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HarryB
Try telling that to a man in uniform when you've been arrested for setting fire to your ex-girfrend's car in a fit of drunken rage... again, Saint

About This Thread

Maintained by HappyG(rrr)
Looks as though this thread has become popular again, here in 2010 (it's now 2024, and it started in 2008, so I think "ever popular" might be more apt! :-) G ) :-) Good Luck everyone.

A recent plea for those struggling to "reach out" as they say in US of A!

"Anyone not feeling strong and confident, please shout out. Or fmail. Or any other comms that works. Don't drink alcohol when you don't want to, for lack of someone to talk to. Pick up the phone, not the bottle."

Some acronyms, in case people use them:
JFT - Just for today
ODAAT - One day at a time
KIS - Keep it simple
TBOGUA - The Benefits Of Giving Up Alcohol (the title of this thread!)

New feature: article/blog of the month (period may change randomly!) Swittle's wonderful 14,611 days blog: (see links below)

Linking Joopsy's 17 year blog too, cos it's awesome!

There is a GREAT article summarising some of the benefits, to save you having to trawl through the thread (includes links to helpful apps and other resources).

And a great list of Alternative Drinks started by the lovely LindsD:

Please add to these articles and make them as valuable as possible! Thanks! :-) G

And one from way back when...
Dirt Monkey's brilliant blog on TBOGUA too - go try this...

Rebel has recommended a couple of good books:
The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober: THE SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER
by Catherine Gray

The Alcohol Experiment: 30 Days to Take Control, Cut Down or Give Up For Good
by Annie Grace

A great response from a health professional in Ireland responding to a question from a Guardian reader about why the warnings on alcoholic drinks that are coming in:

theguardian.com

"Alcohol is responsible for at least 1,000 cancer cases every year in Ireland, with one in eight breast cancer cases arising from alcohol use. Even one to two drinks per day increases the risk of developing cancer, and that risk is the same whether those drinks are wine, spirits or beer. Unfortunately, there is a very low level of public awareness that alcohol has been classed as a Group 1 carcinogen, meaning it is carcinogenic to humans. That is why Ireland has passed legislation that provides for health information labels on alcohol products, including warnings about cancer, liver disease and the danger of drinking in pregnancy. It is unsurprising that the alcohol industry, which promotes its products with carefully crafted myths of good times for all, is objecting to the mandatory provision of facts (Anger brews in Italy over Ireland’s plans for alcohol health warnings, 12 January).
Dr Sheila Gilheany
CEO, Alcohol Action Ireland
"

And the all important fabulous services:
Alcoholics Anonymous
National Helpline (FREE) 0800 9177 650
help@aamail.org

Al Anon
020 7403 0888

medal medal Contact TBOGUA medal medal

We're adding in our own Fetch offer of one to one contact too, for anyone who doesn't want to post in the thread for whatever reason. Please feel free to fmail ANY of the names listed below.

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HappyG(rrr)
( Oscar the grouch RIP )
mrs shanksi
Derby Tup
iaincr
Love Lettuce
DocM
LindsD
GeneHunt59
GregP star
Joopsy star

Note: we're none of us experts, but we're happy to listen, to answer any questions and to offer support if you think it would help you. Except star marked above. Who are experts! :-)

(Note II: at Christmas some names may change a bit, but I'm sure you can still find us to fmail!)
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