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Feb 2013
12:08pm, 28 Feb 2013
24,253 posts
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Velociraptor
You let her go out to work, Caterpillar? Blimey, no wonder she's not putting out for you 
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Feb 2013
12:09pm, 28 Feb 2013
7,533 posts
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Caterpillar
What I have described is a relationship. A decent sex life ought to be part of that, don't you think? If it were X credits of domestic effort gets you Y credits of sex then you are right - it would be a commodity. But when you take stock of how the relationship has developed over 30+ years and you have addressed everything she has ever mentioned as being reasons why she doesn't feel like it (no matter how disconnected they may seem to the male mind) and you still don't get that sex bit of the relationship, then clearly you are still doing something else wrong.
Buggered if I know what it is.
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Feb 2013
12:11pm, 28 Feb 2013
7,534 posts
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Caterpillar
Not that it applies to Mrs C of course. She is a total nympho.
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Feb 2013
12:11pm, 28 Feb 2013
12,388 posts
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Stander
That list looks like far too much hard work.
I think I'll stick with this here tried and trusted cosh.
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Feb 2013
12:12pm, 28 Feb 2013
12,389 posts
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Stander
Copious amounts of wine (in her) also seems to work I find
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Feb 2013
12:14pm, 28 Feb 2013
7,535 posts
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Caterpillar
What if she has decided not to drink any alcohol during the week and at weekends she is too stressed by life even for alcohol to get through?
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Feb 2013
12:14pm, 28 Feb 2013
24,050 posts
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JenL
If one partner sees his/her input to the relationship as "things I'm doing for you that entitle me to expect sex" then it's a very rocky road. Speaking only for me, nothing makes me less inclined to come over all soft and yielding than being faced with an attitude of "I did the vacuuming and emptied the dishwasher/bins FOR YOU" - No, you do things around the house because they need to be done and you are part of the household/partnership; not because you expect a reward and I do things around the house because they need to be done; not because they are my job..
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Feb 2013
12:15pm, 28 Feb 2013
13,767 posts
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DeeGee
"clearly you are still doing something else wrong"
Because, frankly, that's how we see it. Whether we are , or not.
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Feb 2013
12:15pm, 28 Feb 2013
7,536 posts
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Caterpillar
*** wonders how hard it could be to make flibanserin with the kids' chemistry set ***
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Feb 2013
12:15pm, 28 Feb 2013
5,767 posts
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Oysterboy
A lot of the posts seem to be implying that women don't enjoy sex as much as men and that's certainly not true for most of us. I guess the main thing is that we need to feel like we're not just a substitute for their right hand and it's more than just fulfulling a physical need.
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