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Mar 2016
11:52am, 16 Mar 2016
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Star
I've never had any success with dating sites, I have many theories in my head why! I give them a go at least once a year though, and then get pissed off and don't go back on. Even the single thread on here isn't any use, as HP says the folk that post on it aren't single anymore so I haven't been on there for years.

what do I know though, single for 9 years, and don't see it changing anytime soon.
Mar 2016
1:01pm, 16 Mar 2016
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Hills of Death (HOD)
I met my wife on Uniform Dating and previous to that a few 'friends' ;-)
Mar 2016
1:11pm, 16 Mar 2016
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LazyDaisy
A nephew met his wife via mysinglefriend, so these sites do work sometimes! Good luck to all of you, I hope you at least meet some nice people!
Mar 2016
1:39pm, 16 Mar 2016
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McGoohan
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Mar 2016
5:02pm, 16 Mar 2016
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JustDistracted (JD)
:) McG

I was on match for a bit, never got further than looking in several months and found anyone contacting me was generally considerably older...

I met my other half at parkrun :) He would have been too old and too short for my criteria! The problem with those sites I think is that they focus on what you have in common rather than the other persons attitude to having different interests, if that makes sense. And what people look like...

Good Luck!
Mar 2016
5:21pm, 16 Mar 2016
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Gymfreak
I met my husband on fetch. This is a dating website no? Loads of relationships (and babies now) have come from here lol.

Would also never have come across each other on a 'normal' dating website- too old, bald, too much baggage ;) But he is my old baldy and I knew even when we were both with other people that we were soulmates. But then circumstances changed for both of us. Just hang out on fetch ;)
Mar 2016
5:21pm, 16 Mar 2016
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Maz Heeps
I guess it depends on where you live too..... Aberdeen is a village, and it is the same guys on all the websites (i'm sure they say the same, it's the same women too!)

There are a lot of hook ups and as Herman says, it's ok if that's what you're after, and I admire those who are single, and don't want a relationship and have the balls to operate like that, but it must be unfulfilling...

I have done online dating (this time) since new year i have had 9 dates, 2 of which resulted in second/third dates or more. but ulitimately were 2 week wonders....
You've gotta take the chances and meet, some people just seem to want to chat online for weeks. You don't know til you meet someone if you have chemistry....

I met my last partner of 5 years thru online dating too.... we split up coz he had a problem with looking for hookups and chatting to other women online, and i sometimes see him on those sites i am on now. But that's one very bad experience, and he's a freak, not the norm!
Mar 2016
6:29pm, 16 Mar 2016
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halfpint
Actually I've just realised I met an ex through Match. We were together about a year and split because he was an arse - so nothing to do with Match. Although if someone created a website that could filter out all the total wankers I'd pay good money ;)
Mar 2016
5:23am, 17 Mar 2016
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Duffo
Ok, so to all the Single or supposedly single fetchies on here, i would be interested in hearing what you have to say..

oh and Star, what part of the world are you in?
Mar 2016
5:23am, 17 Mar 2016
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Duffo
Ok, so to all the Single or supposedly single fetchies on here, i would be interested in hearing what you have to say..

oh and Star, what part of the world are you in?

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