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Oct 2021
4:39pm, 26 Oct 2021
18 posts
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Old Mum
Very much not, Pou Pou! He is lovely, very cute, lovely body (I only know this because he helped me in the garden after I dislocated my shoulder!) but he wants more than I can give. I'm only 10 months out of a truly destructive 12 year relationship and I've enjoyed my own space. It's taken a while but I'm slowly going from the shell of me to the me that I like and I need that space to fix myself. Don't get me wrong, it's tempting, and I possibly would with someone on a casual basis, but it wouldn't be fair and having been there in the past, I can't do that to someone I regard as a friend.
Anyway, like I said previously, he's a lovely guy and I'd trust him with any of my single female friends, a couple of whom I have in mind for dinner some time. And really, I kid you not, I'm 48, bad hair, eye bags that could float a ferry, live in my garden/down the beach, drowning in the hair of 3 dogs, have that middle aged woman look (great (*)(*) though), but not exactly attractive.
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Oct 2021
4:42pm, 26 Oct 2021
19 posts
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Old Mum
Jangles, my sanity. I have no more emotion to give.
I can, and do, give love and care to friends, but I can't open myself up to that again.
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Oct 2021
5:55pm, 26 Oct 2021
3,830 posts
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Pou Pou LePhoõk
Fair enough, Old Mum.
I hope you can dislocate your shoulder on a regular basis though.
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Oct 2021
5:58pm, 26 Oct 2021
35,947 posts
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halfpint
Stop putting yourself down. He is a friend who knows you and he finds you attractive, therefore you are attractive. What I wouldn't give for a decent snog at the moment.
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Oct 2021
7:04pm, 26 Oct 2021
81,415 posts
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Hanneke
He obviously also really likes YOU for YOU!
You sound extremely attractive to me by the way, do you have a male twin 
I would just enjoy those kisses and leave it at that. He sounds like he will respect the boundaries you set. As long as your communications are clear, I see no objections to enjoying the odd snog.
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Oct 2021
3:54pm, 28 Oct 2021
27 posts
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Old Mum
Han, I have a younger brother but trust me, you wouldn't want to go there. For a start he's looking more like our dad every year and his wife is from Wigan. They raise them proper scary nails down there.
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Oct 2021
4:32pm, 28 Oct 2021
81,490 posts
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Hanneke
Lol OM
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Nov 2021
4:16pm, 1 Nov 2021
30 posts
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Old Mum
Ooops.
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Nov 2021
11:02pm, 1 Nov 2021
35,993 posts
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halfpint
Oooops what?
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Nov 2021
10:21am, 12 Nov 2021
35,536 posts
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Nick Cook
An update.
I joined Boom Singles a few weeks ago, an offshoot of Boom Radio. I've had loads of scam and inappropriate messages. When I say I'm looking for someone aged 55 to 65 within 25 miles from here, I don't really expect messages from 80 year olds 150 miles away! Any messages I've sent have been ignored, or, they are fake profiles.
Anyway, I think I mentioned a while back that a lady from the golf club was asking if I was 'available'. Well, I got in touch with her last week to see if she wanted to meet up, and she said yes! Her name is Joy and we met up for a coffee on Wednesday and chatted for nearly two hours. At the end I asked if she'd like to meet up again sometime and she said yes again! She's off to America this week to visit her son who she hasn't seen for over two years, but she says she'll contact me when she gets back.
Debby, who I've been seeing as a friend, says she approves of Joy.
So all good at the moment. 🙂
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