Transgender exercise - Lets Fetch Everyone
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Dec 2022
12:23pm, 16 Dec 2022
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Hark the heRAEld angels sing
Big hugs to everyone feeling raw (heh, autocorrect wanted to change that to Rae, which I guess if I were giving you a big hug you would be, by necessity) right now. Not just because of any unpleasantness elsefetch, but also because I know this time of year can be a bit shit for lots of people. It's not everyone's cup of tea, of course, but if you like a) cars, ii) Japan, or 3) mates dicking about on an epic road trip, Mighty Car Mods always premier a beautifully filmed and scored feature length film on Christmas day. They're a pair of seemingly very lovely Ausie chaps that I always find cheering to watch. I love you all, you beautiful people 🫂 |
Dec 2022
12:40pm, 16 Dec 2022
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DingDocMerrily
thnks for sharing the hugs Raemondo most of the debate else where had me thoroughly confused as to who was arguing what. As the mother of a Transgender young adult I am keen to understand the issues and what they are facing. They tell me they face anger and abuse and to see how quickly that flaired up on this site which is so kind and caring 99% of the time has shocked me. Perhaps I can now understand why their transgender identity has driven them to not want to live, due to the comments of others. shame your link isnt working. |
Dec 2022
12:42pm, 16 Dec 2022
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Hark the heRAEld angels sing
Oh, I sorry, just search mighty car mods on YouTube and you'll find it
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Dec 2022
12:47pm, 16 Dec 2022
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1step2far
Yes Doc, they are very vulnerable. I thought it was hard being gay in early 2000s but I don't think even then I faced the viterol that's about now. It's no where near the same, but I get misgendered regularly as im butch looking with shaved hair and have had an increasing number of close shaves where people are so angry and they are looking for trouble that I dread using public toilets and female changing rooms. I Hooe your young person can navigate things and become happy as their authentic self |
Dec 2022
12:48pm, 16 Dec 2022
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Pinks
Thanks Rae
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Dec 2022
12:49pm, 16 Dec 2022
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1step2far
It's not all bad, generally there is far greater acceptance of people than there was. There's just room for a lot of improvement
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Dec 2022
12:55pm, 16 Dec 2022
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DingDocMerrily
thank you
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Dec 2022
1:38pm, 16 Dec 2022
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Hark the heRAEld angels sing
I'm increasingly realising that it can be very difficult for people who aren't directly impacted to understand the very real harm that 'casual debates' about trans people's existence and rights causes. I'm not sure how to overcome that, particularly when the debate is so ostensibly dominated by GCSE science dropouts prattling about the 'biological truth' of binary sex... It seems so obvious to me, possibly that's also related to the autism, that trans people, (particularly trans women) are not a threat to cis women - that's cis men that the transphobes are thinking of. I also see a clear link between internalised misogyny and arguments about excluding trans women from women's sports - as well as lot of very revisionist history about why women's sports exist as a separate category in the first place. But anyway. I hope that all the trans, NB, 'non conforming', queer, and otherwise fabulous Fetchies, and those of us who love you, can use this thread as a little life raft in a sea too often troubled with waves of nastiness and scary person eating beasties. |
Dec 2022
2:44pm, 16 Dec 2022
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Flatlander
Thanks Rae. As those of you who read my couple of blogs at the being of the week about misgendering will be aware, my experience shows that there is a a lot of aggression still about, sometimes seemingly because some people just want to be angry about something, although mostly due to intolerance, prejudice, misconceptions, and ignorance. I know my experience is nothing compared to that suffered by Trans people and other groups, but it is an illustration of the attitudes still out there. Do your best not to let those attitudes sink your own little life rafts. |
Dec 2022
6:02pm, 16 Dec 2022
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ZenTaoPlurp
Thanks Raemondo. Nearly forgot, never get's old: snow. |
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