The benefits of giving up alcohol

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LindsD
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Nicholls595
Morning Everybody

31*

One ball at a time
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Merry Christmas and Happy NewG(rrr)
Wonder if it won't be for another 3 plus years until we see DM? He'll be over 1,000 by then!

Nico, how did you get to 31? Great work at the crease!

Morning all. I'm in for today, for sure. :-) G
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Looby Loo
Morning all. Met 2 ex colleagues for lunch yesterday hadn’t decided if I was going to have “one” with my meal but when I got there I decided to go for a fresh ,apple, carrot juice which was delicious.
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Nicholls595
Thanks Happers. Simple really, 30 days in NO-vember, obviously concentrating on one ball at a time is key, but having a goal in mind helps. Was determined to get through the month.

And the extra 1*, well lets just say I "could" have had a drink, but fate intervened and I found myself waiting around A&E until 1.30am. Those places are full of people suffering the after effects of drinking and certainly make it easier to choose not to.
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LindsD
Hope all is OK Nico
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Nicholls595
Sort of Linders. Long story but basically Mini Nico is unwell and on the advice of a nurse on 111 we took her to A&E at 8.15pm. At 1.25am she was told it could be another 8 hours before she was seen by a doctor. Not a great advert for the NHS I'm afraid.
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LindsD
That's pretty stressful and horrid. I'm sorry.
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Merry Christmas and Happy NewG(rrr)
Oh dear Nico, sorry to hear that. Hope Mini Nico is OK.

I was in A&E with my mum weekend before last - called 111 at 1pm and got home from A&E 11pm! Bit shorter than your experience, but not much! A significant proportion of the A&E admissions that I overheard were checks on Covid - babies, kids, adults with symptoms, adults recovered with recurring symptoms. All there on advice of GP or 111. Plus drink and drugs, police escorted character, football injuries, DIY injuries etc. They were swamped.

The NHS is really stretched at the moment. I feel so sorry for them. If you work for the NHS, thank you. You're all flippin stars. :-) G
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Generation X
Wishing Mini Nico a speedy recovery. Striving for double figures today. Often gets tricky at this point, as complacency kicks in.

About This Thread

Maintained by HappyG(rrr)
Looks as though this thread has become popular again, here in 2010 (it's now 2024, and it started in 2008, so I think "ever popular" might be more apt! :-) G ) :-) Good Luck everyone.

A recent plea for those struggling to "reach out" as they say in US of A!

"Anyone not feeling strong and confident, please shout out. Or fmail. Or any other comms that works. Don't drink alcohol when you don't want to, for lack of someone to talk to. Pick up the phone, not the bottle."

Some acronyms, in case people use them:
JFT - Just for today
ODAAT - One day at a time
KIS - Keep it simple
TBOGUA - The Benefits Of Giving Up Alcohol (the title of this thread!)

New feature: article/blog of the month (period may change randomly!) Swittle's wonderful 14,611 days blog: (see links below)

Linking Joopsy's 17 year blog too, cos it's awesome!

There is a GREAT article summarising some of the benefits, to save you having to trawl through the thread (includes links to helpful apps and other resources).

And a great list of Alternative Drinks started by the lovely LindsD:

Please add to these articles and make them as valuable as possible! Thanks! :-) G

And one from way back when...
Dirt Monkey's brilliant blog on TBOGUA too - go try this...

Rebel has recommended a couple of good books:
The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober: THE SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER
by Catherine Gray

The Alcohol Experiment: 30 Days to Take Control, Cut Down or Give Up For Good
by Annie Grace

A great response from a health professional in Ireland responding to a question from a Guardian reader about why the warnings on alcoholic drinks that are coming in:

theguardian.com

"Alcohol is responsible for at least 1,000 cancer cases every year in Ireland, with one in eight breast cancer cases arising from alcohol use. Even one to two drinks per day increases the risk of developing cancer, and that risk is the same whether those drinks are wine, spirits or beer. Unfortunately, there is a very low level of public awareness that alcohol has been classed as a Group 1 carcinogen, meaning it is carcinogenic to humans. That is why Ireland has passed legislation that provides for health information labels on alcohol products, including warnings about cancer, liver disease and the danger of drinking in pregnancy. It is unsurprising that the alcohol industry, which promotes its products with carefully crafted myths of good times for all, is objecting to the mandatory provision of facts (Anger brews in Italy over Ireland’s plans for alcohol health warnings, 12 January).
Dr Sheila Gilheany
CEO, Alcohol Action Ireland
"

And the all important fabulous services:
Alcoholics Anonymous
National Helpline (FREE) 0800 9177 650
help@aamail.org

Al Anon
020 7403 0888

medal medal Contact TBOGUA medal medal

We're adding in our own Fetch offer of one to one contact too, for anyone who doesn't want to post in the thread for whatever reason. Please feel free to fmail ANY of the names listed below.

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HappyG(rrr)
( Oscar the grouch RIP )
mrs shanksi
Derby Tup
iaincr
Love Lettuce
DocM
LindsD
GeneHunt59
GregP star
Joopsy star

Note: we're none of us experts, but we're happy to listen, to answer any questions and to offer support if you think it would help you. Except star marked above. Who are experts! :-)

(Note II: at Christmas some names may change a bit, but I'm sure you can still find us to fmail!)

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