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The benefits of giving up alcohol

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Derby Tup
I wondered the other day if you were still ‘in’ McG. That’s brilliant!
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McGoohan
Cheers DT. I much more fancy a poncey coffee than a beer these days!
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8:28am, 11 Sep 2020
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Derby Tup
I’ve just had a poncey coffee ;-)
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McGoohan
:-)
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LindsD
*smiles*
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8:57am, 11 Sep 2020
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HappyG(rrr)
Saved money not buying 10 bottles of decent wine = 1 poncey coffee maker for free. The benefits just go on...! :-) G
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McGoohan
I think I have an idea of what I want for Christmas ...
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9:09am, 11 Sep 2020
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Wombling Plodder (Welsh Womble)
Lots of positives here 😍 and welcome Winnie.

Looby Lou - interesting to read your update.

I am not sure which day I am on as I have had the occasional one after falling off the wagon a little while ago - I am still tracking units via the Drinkaware App.

Sober October is just around the corner, and falls in line with my week away. I have done it several times in the past, and each year my Auntie would ask if I was doing it again - she passed away several years ago (cancer) - the anniversary of her birth and death are also October so it seems very fitting with marking both occasions with a soft drink and making a donation to pancreatic cancer.

My Friday night demons are much better and any units consumed have been in a more social setting with others rather than a bottle at home to myself - it’s progress but I need to work harder at it.

I am feeling a bit of a fraud at the moment as I am attending a gin masterclass this weekend - it was part of a gift from OH for

my 50th earlier this year and was postponed due to lock down. Gin has not been an issue / trigger for me - OH got it as he knows I like tasting botanicals and how they pair. I didn’t want to upset my OH (and friend who is my

guest) by cancelling the plans so I suppose I need to be more open and honest with OH about my NA intentions. He isn’t a big drinker and can go for months without one, but he has doesn’t understand ‘all or nothing’.

JFT
Sep 2020
9:16am, 11 Sep 2020
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HappyG(rrr)
I went to a champagne wine tasting early in my sobriety WW. I was OK. I "tasted" the champagne but didn't drink it. A lot of it was smell and texture and taste on palette, not glugging it down. Though the rest of the bunch got smashed of course! I drove.

However, aware that for some people just the taste or smell is anathema. So be careful.

October is a great idea, and those sorts of initiatives can really help. A lovely way to honour the memory of your aunt. Lots of links between alcohol and cancer in ways we haven't previously understood. The poison of alcohol can affect all sorts of parts of your body, not just the red nose, beer belly and temporary cognitive impairment. I'll try and find some links.

It's a long term health issue, not just addiction and societal damage. Take care everyone. :-) G
Sep 2020
9:18am, 11 Sep 2020
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HappyG(rrr)
Here's a link - 7 types of cancer, alcohol is a known carcinogen. So if you support cancer reduction, and drink alcohol, you're a bit confused. Not preaching, just science.

alcoholchange.org.uk

About This Thread

Maintained by HappyG(rrr)
Looks as though this thread has become popular again, here in 2010 (it's now 2024, and it started in 2008, so I think "ever popular" might be more apt! :-) G ) :-) Good Luck everyone.

A recent plea for those struggling to "reach out" as they say in US of A!

"Anyone not feeling strong and confident, please shout out. Or fmail. Or any other comms that works. Don't drink alcohol when you don't want to, for lack of someone to talk to. Pick up the phone, not the bottle."

Some acronyms, in case people use them:
JFT - Just for today
ODAAT - One day at a time
KIS - Keep it simple
TBOGUA - The Benefits Of Giving Up Alcohol (the title of this thread!)

New feature: article/blog of the month (period may change randomly!) Swittle's wonderful 14,611 days blog: (see links below)

Linking Joopsy's 17 year blog too, cos it's awesome!

There is a GREAT article summarising some of the benefits, to save you having to trawl through the thread (includes links to helpful apps and other resources).

And a great list of Alternative Drinks started by the lovely LindsD:

Please add to these articles and make them as valuable as possible! Thanks! :-) G

And one from way back when...
Dirt Monkey's brilliant blog on TBOGUA too - go try this...

Rebel has recommended a couple of good books:
The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober: THE SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER
by Catherine Gray

The Alcohol Experiment: 30 Days to Take Control, Cut Down or Give Up For Good
by Annie Grace

A great response from a health professional in Ireland responding to a question from a Guardian reader about why the warnings on alcoholic drinks that are coming in:

theguardian.com

"Alcohol is responsible for at least 1,000 cancer cases every year in Ireland, with one in eight breast cancer cases arising from alcohol use. Even one to two drinks per day increases the risk of developing cancer, and that risk is the same whether those drinks are wine, spirits or beer. Unfortunately, there is a very low level of public awareness that alcohol has been classed as a Group 1 carcinogen, meaning it is carcinogenic to humans. That is why Ireland has passed legislation that provides for health information labels on alcohol products, including warnings about cancer, liver disease and the danger of drinking in pregnancy. It is unsurprising that the alcohol industry, which promotes its products with carefully crafted myths of good times for all, is objecting to the mandatory provision of facts (Anger brews in Italy over Ireland’s plans for alcohol health warnings, 12 January).
Dr Sheila Gilheany
CEO, Alcohol Action Ireland
"

And the all important fabulous services:
Alcoholics Anonymous
National Helpline (FREE) 0800 9177 650
help@aamail.org

Al Anon
020 7403 0888

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We're adding in our own Fetch offer of one to one contact too, for anyone who doesn't want to post in the thread for whatever reason. Please feel free to fmail ANY of the names listed below.

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HappyG(rrr)
( Oscar the grouch RIP )
mrs shanksi
Derby Tup
iaincr
Love Lettuce
DocM
LindsD
GeneHunt59
GregP star
Joopsy star

Note: we're none of us experts, but we're happy to listen, to answer any questions and to offer support if you think it would help you. Except star marked above. Who are experts! :-)

(Note II: at Christmas some names may change a bit, but I'm sure you can still find us to fmail!)
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