The benefits of giving up alcohol

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7:13am, 15 Jul 2019
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Deinonychus
I’m with DocMoye. Have never felt the need to give up completely, but it’s good to have groups like this to encourage what is possible.
Jul 2019
8:22am, 15 Jul 2019
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HappyG(rrr)
Great advice everyone and best of luck to Gen X (I've pinged him and fmail just to point him at the lovely supportive comments from you all, in case he hasn't seen them - think he said he was off on holiday).

Very nice non-drinking weekend here. Weren't the sports over weekend fun? And lovely weather up here, so lots of great outdoor time too. Summer is great. I used to associate summer time with sitting outside with a cold (alcoholic) drink. I can genuinely say that yesterday it actually didn't even occur to me.

That may be the first time since I stopped 14 years ago. So getting bad habits out of your psyche can take... a while! :-) G
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8:27am, 15 Jul 2019
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Homer
True.

This is my second sober-summer. Last summer I would have been thinking about the beer watching stuff. Yesterday the thought didn't cross my mind...in fact it didn't cross my mind until you just mentioned it :-)

It was so nice to go for a run in the park, do some gardening (well carry things while Cheshire Lady did some gardening) and watch sport on TV before going out for dinner with the family and the thought didn't cross my mind and we had top family time.
Jul 2019
8:32am, 15 Jul 2019
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HappyG(rrr)
Where is the Like or +1 button?! Great post Homer. Your brain obviously moves on more quickly than mine! :-) G
Jul 2019
8:59am, 15 Jul 2019
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Generation X
Thank you to all of you for your kindness, support and suggestions. They are very much welcomed and appreciated.

"A journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step".
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9:26am, 15 Jul 2019
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Homer
A good few of us have been there Gen X.

Here is my before photo
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9:26am, 15 Jul 2019
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Homer
(blue top :-))
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9:26am, 15 Jul 2019
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Homer
And this weekend, 18 months later
Jul 2019
9:27am, 15 Jul 2019
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Homer
(different blue top)

It is hard but the benefits are properly awesome.
Jul 2019
9:29am, 15 Jul 2019
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mrs shanksi
What a difference Homer! Well done.

About This Thread

Looks as though this thread has become popular again, here in 2010 (it's now 2024, and it started in 2008, so I think "ever popular" might be more apt! :-) G ) :-) Good Luck everyone.

A recent plea for those struggling to "reach out" as they say in US of A!

"Anyone not feeling strong and confident, please shout out. Or fmail. Or any other comms that works. Don't drink alcohol when you don't want to, for lack of someone to talk to. Pick up the phone, not the bottle."

Some acronyms, in case people use them:
JFT - Just for today
ODAAT - One day at a time
KIS - Keep it simple
TBOGUA - The Benefits Of Giving Up Alcohol (the title of this thread!)

New feature: article/blog of the month (period may change randomly!) Swittle's wonderful 14,611 days blog: (see links below)

Linking Joopsy's 17 year blog too, cos it's awesome!

There is a GREAT article summarising some of the benefits, to save you having to trawl through the thread (includes links to helpful apps and other resources).

And a great list of Alternative Drinks started by the lovely LindsD:

Please add to these articles and make them as valuable as possible! Thanks! :-) G

And one from way back when...
Dirt Monkey's brilliant blog on TBOGUA too - go try this...

Rebel has recommended a couple of good books:
The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober: THE SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER
by Catherine Gray

The Alcohol Experiment: 30 Days to Take Control, Cut Down or Give Up For Good
by Annie Grace

A great response from a health professional in Ireland responding to a question from a Guardian reader about why the warnings on alcoholic drinks that are coming in:

theguardian.com

"Alcohol is responsible for at least 1,000 cancer cases every year in Ireland, with one in eight breast cancer cases arising from alcohol use. Even one to two drinks per day increases the risk of developing cancer, and that risk is the same whether those drinks are wine, spirits or beer. Unfortunately, there is a very low level of public awareness that alcohol has been classed as a Group 1 carcinogen, meaning it is carcinogenic to humans. That is why Ireland has passed legislation that provides for health information labels on alcohol products, including warnings about cancer, liver disease and the danger of drinking in pregnancy. It is unsurprising that the alcohol industry, which promotes its products with carefully crafted myths of good times for all, is objecting to the mandatory provision of facts (Anger brews in Italy over Ireland’s plans for alcohol health warnings, 12 January).
Dr Sheila Gilheany
CEO, Alcohol Action Ireland
"

And the all important fabulous services:
Alcoholics Anonymous
National Helpline (FREE) 0800 9177 650
help@aamail.org

Al Anon
020 7403 0888

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We're adding in our own Fetch offer of one to one contact too, for anyone who doesn't want to post in the thread for whatever reason. Please feel free to fmail ANY of the names listed below.

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HappyG(rrr)
( Oscar the grouch RIP )
mrs shanksi
Derby Tup
iaincr
Love Lettuce
DocM
LindsD
GeneHunt59
GregP star
Joopsy star

Note: we're none of us experts, but we're happy to listen, to answer any questions and to offer support if you think it would help you. Except star marked above. Who are experts! :-)

(Note II: at Christmas some names may change a bit, but I'm sure you can still find us to fmail!)

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